Hello dear readers:
It’s been a bit since I last wrote an entry. Needless to say, I have been very busy, what with photo shoots, event planning, and actual sessioning.
After having given it some thought, I thought it prudent to emphasize what I truly seek out in having a personal (slave, that is). The dynamic is obviously one that requires a maturation process; it can’t be instantly formed. So, without keeping anyone in suspense, I list here what I require & expect of a personal slave:
This should go without saying, but there are always going to be a few clueless individuals. Respect entails that you not only respect Me, your Mistress, but also that you have a respect for yourself on some level. I frown upon extraordinarily self-destructive behaviours: drug abuse, alcohol abuse. Those behaviours will not be tolerated. BDSM is many things, but it does require you to be in a head space that allows for you to clearly negotiate.
There are times when each of U/us needs to unwind, meditate, and think matters through. I am a private person on some levels, and I expect a slave to appreciate and abide accordingly. Not respecting My space and privacy equates to not obeying. Which is simply unacceptable.
There is the old saying that ‘attitude shapes altitude.’ There is some truth to that. A personal slave ideally would be able to roll with the punches and whims as I deem fit, once and when they are serving Me. Being flexible, un-intrusive, and not redundant are preferred. Bitterness, or holding on to old baggage will not get you far. A Mistress-slave dialectic entails that you are willing to learn, thus progress. That means patience. You can’t become a professional musician without practice, and lots of it; same applies to this. you simply cannot expect everything to be perfect at first. It’s a relationship that grows.
In other news, Mistress Shae (www.MistressShae.com) and I are accepting double sessions in Chicago from today until the 24th. Don’t miss out on Our dynamic and creative cruelty.
There are some other interesting developments, but I will keep you waiting on those.